My reflection: How do addicts learn to live in abstinence? Dr. MacAfee says this is the essential question.
Today’s Promise to consider: We know a lot about addiction, but we don’t know much about how addicts learn to live in sobriety. My experience is that AA and NA gave Jeff a recipe for living that underscored accountability, faith and contribution. Simultaneously, Al-Anon provided me a community of people who helped me prioritize self care. Today, I will support those I love with compassion and understanding as they relearn how to live life. This includes me.
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Well said Libby! This is a brutal disease and once I was able to accept that fact I then became "willing" to learn all that I could. I remember asking my alcohol drug counselor this question, "What do I need to do to be of most help to my family and addicted son?" His answer put me in a new direction and I committed myself to put aside my own understanding and to allow those with the knowledge and experience I didn't have to guide me in a new direction.
You're right, Pat, and I did the same thing. I needed to surrender to the disease and to open my arms to others who could help me. Al-Anon was my saving grace along with Dr. MacAfee. Thanks, as always, for sharing.
Great book called Love Yourself by Gena Rotas - some great tools for living life, loving yourself
Great suggestion. Thanks, Anne-Marie. I'll check it out. xo
I just bought this! Thank you for the suggestion!